If you always feel bad around a buddy, they may be a bad one. Even if you've known a friend forever, a psychologist listed indicators of mistreatment.
1. They take far more than provide. Kirmayer claimed a "sense of balance or equality." is crucial to friendships.
A buddy may talk more, but they should still ask questions and care about you.
2. They critique with "brutal honesty" That borders on continual criticism.
Having a buddy criticize your speech, mannerisms, or interests is different than worrying about your relationship with an aggressive ex.
3. Poor feedback response Kirmayer added that taking criticism is crucial to a good friendship.
4. Rarely initiate communication. Regarding reciprocity, Kirmayer said intimate friends must feel equal in making time and prioritizing each other.